...personal blog about my experiences of living, raising a family, and serving as a messenger of the good news of Jesus Christ in Taiwan. Comments are always welcome.

Monday, April 21, 2008

You All Look Alike To Me.....

Last week I stopped by the pet store where we bought our hamsters. I needed some more hamster food and bedding. As I was paying, one of the gals at the cash desk noticed the family picture in my wallet. "Can I see the picture?", she asked. I pointed out my wife and 3 children. She immediately pointed to Erin and said, "Oh, I've seen her in here before." She then called one of her co-workers over and showed the picture to him. "See", she continued, "you've seen this girl in here before, haven't you?"

"I can't say", he replied. "All these foreigners look the same to me."

How often have Westerners thought (if not said) this of Asians? After living in an Asian country for several years, I can testify that such statements (from Westerners or Asians) stem only from a sense of what is unfamiliar. I believe that we tend to unconsciously generalize that which is foreign to us. Certainly there are some traits common to each unique race, but after spending time living in a particular foreign culture, you soon become aware of the many differences and distinctions. The Taiwanese, for instance, come in all shapes and sizes, just as Westerners do. One initially looks at the Chinese/Taiwanese race and sees only black hair. However strange you may find it, though, I've learned that there are many different shades of "black". There are also wide varieties of nose, eye, and face shape. It doesn't take too long before you realize that they certainly don't all look alike.

Along these same lines of thought, I have encountered a strange phenomenon whenever I've  returned to the West after spending some time in Taiwan (and I'm sure I'll experience again the next time I go back to Canada). That is, for the first several days and weeks after arriving back in the West, I find myself frequently looking into the faces of Caucasians and saying to myself. "I know that person!", or, "That guy looks identical to....", though all these people are complete strangers to me. I suppose having not seen many Caucasian faces for so long, my brain once again "generalizes" the images, blurring the fine distinctions that I would normally see in the people of my own race. I'm not sure how else to explain it.

Have you had a similar experience? How do you perceive it? How would you explain it?

Thursday, April 17, 2008

It's Not The Heat. It's The Humidity!


I know there are much hotter places in the world than Taiwan (India, the Philippines, and Death Valley, CA come to mind), but anyone who's lived here can testify that it gets pretty hot in the summer. On the other hand, most people in Taiwan find the winters cold here. Being a Canadian, raised in northern Manitoba, I find them comfortable (in T-shirt and shorts). The summers however, have taken some getting used to.

As I write this (mid-April), it's technically not summer yet, but it's starting to feel like it. For instance, right now it is +30 C with 63% humidity (which is not bad, actually). In the summer months (July-August) it'll go to +35 C for daytime highs, and the humidity will hang around the 80-90% range. At night the temps will only cool by a couple degrees, so there's no relief there.

Being an island surrounded by ocean, Taiwan is perfect quarry for such weather. Here one can truly say it is the humidity. Where else could one take a shower, dry off with a towel, and still be soaking wet? One can work up a sweat by merely breathing. It's not unusual for people to have several showers a day (a necessity) and change undergarments just as frequently (highly recommended).

The humidity affects other things as well. If you own any expensive camera equipment, it's best to keep your lenses in a dry box, as it won't take long for mold to grow on the glass. Cuts and scrapes on the skin take a lot longer to heal than they do in drier environments. Forget about trying to use down pillows and comforters. And I don't know the physiological explanation for it, but the humidity somehow really does zap your strength/energy (at least that's my story and I'm sticking to it).

They say you do eventually get used to it. Maybe so, but I've never felt comfortable walking around in wet clothes. If you do want to be comfortable in your home, expect to pay a high electricity bill for running the AC's (I often wonder what our Taiwanese neighbors think when we start running the AC's in April, when they typically won't turn them on till July! "Wimpy foreigners.").

Monday, April 7, 2008

Driving Culture - East vs. West


I've lived long enough in Taiwan to not just notice the obviously different driving habits between the East and West, but to have also pondered why we do the things we do when behind the wheel of a car (or the handle bars of a scooter, whatever the case may be). Thinking about why people in different cultures drive the way they do can reveal some interesting insights into our cultural values. Here are some of my thoughts about the differences between driving in Canada (and the U.S.) and Taiwan (although I will put forth the disclaimer that these musings are based in personal observations and reflection only, and not anything remotely resembling scientific study).

First of all, a Westerner visiting Taiwan will immediately notice that the Taiwanese don't seem to have as much "respect" for traffic rules and regulations as Westerners (apparently) do. One will frequently observe drivers in Taiwan treating red lights at controlled intersections as though they were "stop signs", coming to a stop, but then immediately proceeding through the intersection if the way is clear (or sometimes even if it is not). Or, they may not stop at all, only slowing slightly before scooting through the red light. You can also frequently see drivers making left turns from the right hand lane, and right turns from the left lane. And although most streets have clearly marked lanes, the joke in Taiwan among Westerners is that, in reality, a lane seems to be where you are at any given moment. However, before judging too quickly, one must remember that the "car culture" in Taiwan is not as old as it is in the West, and that people drive according to "necessity", often taking red lights as mere "suggestions" rather than laws to be obeyed. I believe that some of the differences observed can be attributed to the way the Chinese view authority (in this case the Ministry of Transportation and enforcing local traffic officials). Without going into the historical reasons why, suffice it to say that when it comes to things like traffic rules, en-stated by a faceless government authority, the Chinese tend not to see things as "black and white" as the Westerner, and there is no shame in actually breaking a traffic law, but only in getting caught. Consequently, many more Taiwanese are willing to take that risk.

Another interesting habit that Taiwanese drivers have, which especially frustrates my wife, is their tendency, when approaching a main road from a side street, to just, again, slow only slightly, and merge into the flow of traffic. Or, if traffic is busy, to at least "get one's nose" out far enough so as to force the flow of cars on the main road to "yield" over far enough to let them in. Westerners are accustomed to this at on-ramps onto a freeway, but not from side streets or lanes connecting onto a busier city street. I think the Westerner is trained from early on to give greater respect to the larger road. Vehicles on smaller roads have less rights than on bigger roads. For the Taiwanese, I don't think this is the case. They see all roads as more or less equal. Big or small, they are all just "pathways" to get somewhere. They approach intersections with a more "give and take" attitude, regardless of who is already on the bigger road. Westerners in this case think, "I am here on this big road, traveling at this speed, and you will have to wait for me to safely pass before you pull out. That is the order of things." The Taiwanese however, think more like, "I want to turn onto this road. You obviously see me, and I can see that you have some room to move over, so there's no reason why you shouldn't let me in."

A final example of the different driving habits here vs. the West have to do with what we have come to know as "road rage". Road rage has become an increasing problem in the West (especially in some states in the U.S.). In Taiwan, with the number of cars being what they are, all "competing" for a space of limited road real estate, one would think that the occurrence of road rage here would be quite high. In fact it is rare. I've pondered why this is. Aside from commenting on how it is important for the Chinese to "save face" in personal conflict (which probably has something to do with it), I think the main reason there are few instances of road rage has to do with how the Taiwanese view what we would call "personal space". In the West, when we take a vehicle onto a road, our sense of personal space does not only include the car itself, but an undefined area surrounding the car as well. The "defensive driving" campaign of recent decades has taught us to allow a "safe zone" on all four sides of the vehicle. For many, this includes areas of free space that may extend several meters around the vehicle. Hence, if someone is thoughtless enough to "cut in front of us" or pass us too closely, we are immediately offended, even if there was still several feet of empty space between the vehicles and the likelihood of a collision quite small. Our attitude in these cases is one of, "How dare you enter my space?!" We take it as a personal violation, and so, a common reaction, when violated, is to want to get even. Thus, the anger escalates quickly.

In Taiwan however, the sense of personal space is much smaller. So small in fact, that I would say it only extends to the outer surface of the vehicle's metal skin. Drivers here stake no claim in any "personal safety zone" or space around their own vehicle. They are accustomed to having to drive through small alleys and lanes on a daily basis, maneuvering by parked cars with only inches to spare on either side. The idea is just not to make contact (although this ideal is frequently surrendered in the interest in getting through, as an all to common sight in Taiwan is vehicles with the paint scarped on the side - even on many newer luxury cars). So, when a driver has someone sail by him with only 18 inches between the vehicles, no offense is taken. Drivers don't lay claim to that space in the first place, so that space is never violated, no matter how close someone gets (unless there is actual contact, and then it's a whole different story altogether).

These are just some of the differences in attitudes between drivers from the East and the West. Different realities, different cultures and thinking, and different habits, sometimes frustrating for the foreigner living in Taiwan, but much more tolerable when you understand why things are the way they are.